When we were children, the game “telephone” showed just how quickly bad information can spread. Take independent living, for example. There are many myths that keep older adults from choosing this exceptional lifestyle and enjoying a retirement filled with freedom, friends and purpose. Here’s a look at what’s true and what isn’t.
Independent living: what it’s really like
A recent Pew Research Center Social & Demographic Trends survey reports that the older people get, the younger they feel. Among adults 65 and older, 60% say they feel younger than their age. And in fact, the gap in years between actual age and “felt” age widens as people age.
Not only is this good news, it’s also inspiration for choosing a lifestyle option that’s designed specifically for the safety, wellbeing and enjoyment of older adults. Independent senior living communities offer this option, with exciting new amenities and services that you may not even expect—especially if you have the wrong idea about independent living.
Common myths about independent living and independent senior living communities:
Myth #1: I won’t have any freedom. I’ll be told what to do. I won’t be able to come and go.
Fact: In independent living, you are free to come and go as you please. Want to travel at the drop of a hat? Just close the door of your private residence and go. Would you like to take a drive in the afternoon to your favorite spot by the beach? Go right ahead—don’t forget your sunscreen!
You’ll have more freedom than ever before, because you no longer will be held back by household chores and maintenance, such as repair and upkeep of the roof, flooring, appliances, garage, landscape, security system, and on and on.
There are no restrictions on your personal time or whereabouts in independent senior living communities. Many residents who savor their independence do appreciate the added bonus of being able to tell someone when they are going somewhere, just as an added safety measure. However, how and where you spend your time is up to you.
Myth #2: I’ll be lonely because I won’t know anyone, and I don’t like being the new kid. Everyone will be a stranger.
Fact: Look at the faces of the residents in an independent living community. You’ll see lots of smiles and relaxed expressions. That’s because from the very start, they feel part of a caring family of their peers. Current residents often assist new residents in getting to know where things are and what activities are going on. Your new neighbors also will delight in greeting you and helping you feel at home. Mealtimes are ideal for meeting new friends and quickly settling in. Everywhere you go, from a Zumba class to a birthday party to a group trip to a museum, you’ll be surrounded by friendly, welcoming folks who are glad to see you.
Download our free guide: Just The Facts: Your Guide to Independent Living
Myth #3: Independent living is just too expensive compared to living at home. I can’t afford it.
Fact: You might have paid off your mortgage, so you’re thinking you don’t want to start paying a monthly fee in independent living. But stop and think about what you are still paying for in your home: taxes, insurance, utilities, repairs, yard upkeep, and more. And should your needs change, you’ll have to deal with the cost of in-home health care and other unforeseen charges.
In independent senior living communities, you no longer pay taxes, insurance, or any repair bill. It’s all included in your monthly fee. Plus, you have access to a range of exceptional amenities for entertainment, wellness and fitness, lifelong learning, socializing, dining, and much more. You can sit back, relax, and know that you no longer have to fear what home-related bill might be in the mail.
Myth #4: Independent living is for people much older than me. I’m too young.
Fact: You’re never too young to be happy, feel engaged and connected, and have a spring in your step. Those who choose independent senior living communities often discover a new energy for everything, simply because their time is theirs to spend as they choose, with people who make the day brighter.
The myth about the “right age” for independent living may be related to the notion that once you move to senior living, you’re really going to a “nursing home.” Nothing could be further from the truth! Today’s independent living often feels like a resort: delicious, chef-prepared cuisine, soothing spa experiences, interesting classes and excursions, holiday celebrations, beautifully appointed private residences, and a professional, caring staff ready to assist you.
Myth #5: There won’t be enough to do. I’ll get bored.
Fact: There are so many reasons why this is false it’s hard to know where to start. Take St. Mark Village, for example. There’s our location in Palm Harbor, where you’ll find the right mix of comfort, conveniences, natural beauty and charm for older adults who want their retirement to feel like continuous vacation.
In our extraordinary senior living community, you can design your day as you choose. Exercise. Drop by the library. Chat on the porch. Play cards. See a movie. Learn to crochet. Try line dancing. Attend a concert. Invite your grandchildren over to swim. Amenities include a chapel, fitness/wellness center, beauty shop, library and card shop, club room, craft center, pool and spa, garden, woodworking shop, mini mart, Village Café & Bakery, lovely dining room, banquet room, gorgeous outdoor spaces, and much, much more.
The truth is right here!
If you’re looking for a warm and welcoming senior living community in Pinellas County with everything you need now, as well as seamless access to future care options, St. Mark Village might be just right for you.
Independent living focused on the whole person. Download our free guide, Just The Facts: Your Guide to Independent Living, or contact us to schedule a tour. We’d love to hear from you.
